I’m 28 years old and my husband is 29. I don’t love him anymore. He doesn’t work anymore, therefore he doesn’t take interest in our children and he won’t help out around the house.
He just sits in the other lounge drinking beer and watching football or going to the pub to be with his friends.
He constantly takes money off our account to play poker sometimes he can waste five hundred to one thousand bucks in a night. The money he takes is the money I earn.
I have loved him and have tried to make it work but it doesn’t. I talked to him about counselling but he refused to go and he won’t talk about divorce.
I know he is cheating on me. He isn’t intimate with me anymore, we haven’t had sex in 5 months. I just want the affection from another man, not him anymore. What should I do?