Hie Aunty Lissa
I had unprotected sex with my boyfriend for about 5 rounds a day but he used withdrawal method and shot his cum out of me. I want to know if I could be pregnant or are there any chances for me getting pregnant because of the withdrawal method we used.
The withdrawal method can work. The whole process is reliant on everything coming together (no pun intended) so it is actually designed to not work everytime. Of course the chances of getting someone pregnant are great enough I wouldn’t recommend it. Also, you seem to be worried about pregnancy, which is not a big deal, and not dangerous diseases associated with having unprotected sex.
My husband used the same method and we know that he doesn’t have any extra spawns running around out there (he stayed in contact with his ex-girlfriends for a while after they broke-up, specifically for that reason). Now with that said, we have a 3 1/2 year old and another on the way and they were both a ‘surprise’, so the method doesn’t always work.
It has been predicted that it is about 75% effective, and its more effective with some guys than others. I used it about two years ago and I have a 15 month old daughter. It didnt work for me. Have you ever heard of “precum”? That can get a gal pregnant too. I wouldnt rely on it as my only means of birth control, trust me I should know!
From Doc PeeDee:
Although this is an extremely risky birth control method, it does lessen the chance of getting pregnant because not nearly as many sperm actually get inside of the woman so the chances diminish. but it can always happen.
First of all, the words withdrawal and method do not go together as that is certainly not a method of preventing pregnancy. Second of all, if he does “leak” a little bit, it can be at any point so your timing doesn’t matter at all.
Oh hun, If you intend to keep using that method you might want to buy some pregnancy tests. That’s exactly how I got pregnant. Pre- *** can come out at any point during sex and often comes out throughout sex. I know condoms aren’t fun especially for the guy, but please try to use these or the pill if you aren’t prepared to be a mom. Another method that has worked for me for years is figuring out your cycle. There are kits for this at the grocery store. You basically figure out when you ovulate and don’t have unprotected sex around that time. I just basically had sex right after my period for about 5 days and used protection until a few days before my period was about to start. Although that worked for me, it was probably just luck so do as I say, not as I do.
My first child was a result of this “withdrawal method”. I was only 15 & dumb enough to believe the “method” would work. He withdrew about 20 minutes before finishing. If you’re not ready to be a parent, use real protection or don’t have sex when you don’t have protection.
From Jacob’s mom:
THIS IS NOT A METHOD!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! When will people realize that this is no more effective than not pulling out at all? If you don’t want to get pregnant either:
Don’t have sex OR Use Birth Control and Condoms (to protect from STDs and any Birth Control slip up.)
From Sweetest pussy:
i’m 28 weeks pregnant… we used the “pull and pray” meathod.
hahaha… fortunately we were already engaged and are already married now so it’s not a big deal…. you on the other hand… might want to invest in some condoms dear…. all i can tell you is that they are a hell of a lot cheaper than having a baby is!