Hello Aunty Lisa,
I’m a 24-year-old staunch Catholic and I’m still a virgin, yet I find myself thinking about sex several times a day but don’t know if I should wait for the right person. Is being a virgin a turn-off for most guys? Do guys think waiting is a respectable and responsible thing to do ? Would just throwing away my virginity seem slurry or okay. I’m Really confused.
Even at church guys hardly approach me or talk to me about dirty jokes like they do with other girls or young ladies of my age. Even some female members of our church make fun out of me because of my virginity and I’m beginning to think of having sex with anyone just to avoid being the odd one out.