I am 23 years old and I am having a problem with my boyfriend. He is 25 years old and he does not believe that for the last two years I have not had s3x. I lost my v1rginity when I was 18, and it happened with a man I did not love. He was much older than me and he took me out one night to buy chicken. When we sat down, he ordered two beers. I told him that I have never had beer and he said that it would not hurt me, so I drank half of it. Before we left, he said that I should drink the rest so I drank it.
I then found myself at his house. He had his own room that he was renting. I begged him not to have s3x with me because I was a virgin. He said he always wanted to have s3x with a virgin. I don’t know what happened to me, but I fell asleep. I slept for about two hours. When I woke up, I felt him fondling me until I gave up and we had s3x.
He used a condom, so I was not worried about getting pregnant. I never went out with him again because I did not expect him to force me to have s3x with him.
I had to lie to the people I was living with. I was boarding with an old couple and they had to let me in when I got home. This guy gave me $2,000 before he took me home. I told him that I didn’t want anything to do with him again. I changed my number.
Now, there is this man who is in my church. We like each other. He is in charge of praise and worship. I refused to have s3x with him, but he has some strange beliefs. He told me that he believes that we have to pray before we have s3x. I asked him what would the prayer do and he says that he has to give thanks for everything. I told him that that is weird and he said that it is not weird to him.
So I have decided to ask you, if a couple is married and they are about to have s3x, whether they should pray.