I need your advice on how to deal with a cheating husband. We’ve been married for 12 years with 3 beautiful children but for the past 4 years, my marriage has been a living hell as my husband has been seen cheating with different women.
Last time, I told him that I want a divorce so that we can part ways but he was here with his relatives pleading and crying like a baby for me to forgive him. I forgave him because I love him and for the forsake of our children. But it seems he’s not ready to change.
Three days ago, I found nak3d photos of his girlfriend on his phone (sometimes we exchange phones). I confronted him but he couldn’t say anything as he was so shocked. Later, he admitted a girl sent him those pics and I think he forgot to delete them. This has gone too far and I’m confused as I don’t know what to do anymore. I know I can’t change him but he can decide to change.
My question is should I run away with my children without telling him or how should I deal with him in a way he will never forget? I can’t cheat on him like he is doing because I’m a christian and I’m tired of elders and pastors sitting us down for counselling. And believe me, I’ve been a good and very supportive who has sacrificed so much just to make my marriage work.