My husband and I have been married for about a year now and we have been doing really fine.
We are both in paid employment and both of us contribute financially but I handle all the house chores.
In the course of doing the laundry, I wash all our clothes including his singlets and boxers, without complaint.
Recently I took ill and he decided to help out with the laundry but to my surprise, he took out my panties and other undies of mine and washed only the clothes, even though we use a washing machine to do our laundry.
I hope you understand my confusion, if I wash his singlet and boxers, why can’t he wash my panties and bra? Afterall, I am his wife and not a stranger.