Dear Aunty Lisa,
My girlfriend and I have been dating for six months and have had a lot of protected sex. At times i would go to her place for the whole weekend and we would enjoy ourselves. We get on great and love each other’s families.
I’ve been thinking of getting married to her for a little while end of this year or early next year, but the other night when we were sat watching television, she said she would love to have a baby but marriage isn’t something she is interested in.
I was quite shocked about it and asked her why and all she said was that having a wedding had never been her fantasy and she didn’t see the point of it. The truth is I love her so much, she is so sweet and I cant afford to lose her. She seems to be very honest and she has never cheated on me.
At times I take her phone without her consent, I go through her messages but I do not see anything suspicious. Do you think it’s actually just me she’s not interested in getting married to me?