Dear Aunty Lisa,
I have been married for 15 years and I have caught my husband having sex with other girlfriends on numerous times, over 10 times actually, with different women. At first I used to cry until I decided to cheat on him too.
Now I’m dating a married man whom I meet up with after work and enjoy sex with him since my husband is no longer interested in sexually pleasing me. My problem, however, is that my married boyfriend says he doesn’t enjoy protected sex, and therefore prefers sex without condoms. He says it’s better for him not to have sex than to ‘eat a sweet whilst in its plastic wrapper’.
What should I do aunty because I really miss sex and I am not so comfortable with unprotected sex, but at the same time I can’t let him go because my husband is now as good as my brother. We don’t even hug or kiss.