I’ve been married 4 years, to my childhood sweetheart of 7 years. we love each other. But since 4 years now, I have communicated to him abut how I am dissatisfied with our post-marital sex life. Before marriage, it rocked- he could go on, screwing me real hard, all night long!

I am not very much into porn, though I have resorted to it as a last option, or say when one of us was travelling with work. However, I had earlier in the marriage confronted him, and he had confessed then that he would view porn in his office. Obviously, since he was busy jerking off, he wasn’t as interested in me any more. However, he promised to stop watching it… (I don’t trust him 100{863ae21f3883e951777bdbc8607717246c41fed58c5a71d477243a35f9718ce7}, but hey big deal, I’ve enjoyed a few times as well – only when I have been totally frustrated by his lack of interest in shagging me.)

My point and problem here is: I haven’t let porn affect my sex drive or interest in him. Then why is he doing so? or maybe he is cheating on me with someone else.

The funny part is I am 6 months pregnant now, and he is the one with decreased libido. I could have sex every day, multiple times in one night, whereas he has shown interest only say, once in 2 weeks! I have tried to talk to him about it, he says he is not interested because lately we’ve been fighting a lot and he cannot get himself to have sex with me. But he said he jerks off sometimes when alone, say after I’ve left for work. Fair enough. But what about all these last 4 years?? And how do I seek satisfaction? How do I quench my desire for sex? I am only human too

I ask: what do men want? and what do I do? Should he or me (or both of us) see a Sexpert? please help. I am going nuts with this lack good sex in my life. Should I simply watch porn and satisfy my urges?

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