Dear Aunty Lisa,
I don’t know if I am alright.
I am married with 2 kids. Ever since I married my husband, I have never received love. He has a habit of always chatting with ladies till late in the night. If I confront him, he will confess that he has had affairs with them after we were married. I made it known to him that I can’t take it. I cried and begged him to stop but he never did.
The issue caused an argument one day in the presence of his Mum. What the mother said made me to know the kind of mother she is. Her comment was that I should leave him alone that he is just stamping them, that it is me that is at home.
Since then, I made a decision to ignore him because that was the advice I got. I make sure I don’t sit in the sitting room whenever he is chatting so that I won’t get angry. I went through his phone one day and discovered he is still having sexual relationship with his ex~girlfriends.
This man has caused me lots of trauma and sadness. He told me I am immature, that he has never seen or heard where a woman complains of his husband chatting with female friends.
I would like to throw the question to the house, IS IT A NORMAL THING FOR A HUSBAND TO BE CHATTING WITH HIS FEMALE FRIENDS TILL LATE IN THE NIGHT????