Dear Aunty Lisa,
Pls hide my ID. I have dated my ex 4 about 8 yrs but we brokeup after he cheated and made another chick pregnant. He begged me 2 take him back of which I did and we continued 4 about a year but I left him 4 another man whom I don’t even love, it was just 2 get back at him 4 wat he did 2 me.
He asked me 2 leave de guy and wanted 2 pay lobola 4 me, but I neva did. I’m now pregnant with dis new man’s child but my problm is I still love my ex a lot and he stopped talking 2 me and wants nothing to do with me after he found out about my pregnancy. I can’t get ova him and it really hurts me that he wants nothing 2 do with me anymore. I have some memories about him. Please help me. Will I eva love dis new man de way I loved my ex? Must I continue with dis relationship even though I know deep down that I love my ex alot?