Dear Aunty Lisa,
I am 26 years old and in a relationship with a guy of 30. The relationship is about 8years and we love each other very much.
The problem is each time we want to proceed with our marriage, my mom opposes and even threatens to leave my dad if he accepts. She claims she suffered too much for me and should benefit a lot from me before marriage. We are contemplating moving on together until they are ready for us. What do you advice please?