Dear Aunty Lisa,
I met this guy around 2009 when I finished writing my Matric, we date for 5-6 years . He later travelled to another province due to some circumstances I misbehaved he caught me with one guy, NOT IN BED, he learnt that me and the guy we are like dating but before then our relationship was shaking and I needed money to pay my school fees that why i was dating the guy. When he found out he got angry and quit the relationship.
I also quit the relationship with the other guy. I know that I have hurt him I pleaded with him he did not listened so he moved on with another girl, they later separated. Now after all these years from that incident I haven’t fallen in love again. I have tried to be in love with someone but is not working out. But am still begging him all this while to give me a second chance and now he isn’t base in South Africa. Last time we chat I begged him for forgiveness he said he has forgiven me but he is far away from me and I told him it doesn’t matter and I still love you and he said ok. Meaning he has accepted me back.
I don’t know whether he meant what he said or he is just trying to free himself, mind you other guys that have asked me out most of them based outside so is not because he travelled outside and I have been begging him before he travelled so please I need your sisterly advice cos I still love him.