Dear Aunty Lisa
My girlfriend and I have been together for about 10 months now and so far we haven’t had sex yet. We have discussed this and, at first, she said she did want to have s3x with me, but was worried that it would end up like her previous disastrous relationships.
Now, after a few months, her s3x drive has completely dried up. She knows the situation is getting me down and says she’s sorry, but she doesn’t make any effort to try to fix things. She just keeps telling me that it’ll happen soon.
I don’t know what to do because I love her to bits, but it’s affecting my happiness. I probably should just call it a day, but I don’t want to do that.