Dear Aunty Lisa
While on a night out for my boyfriend’s birthday, we had an argument – it was nothing major, he just drank too much. He then got abusive and left me on my own in the dark, ignoring all my calls.
I finally found him an hour later with my best friend. After an argument, we went home together and he spent an hour in the bathroom. Little did I know, he was messaging my best friend saying he wanted her, loved her and didn’t want me any more. He then sent her a picture of his manhood.
My friend (who is no longer a friend) told me all this a couple of days later, but when I confronted him, he claimed to know nothing about it.
I love him, but he hasn’t even tried to explain any of it. He just said it was a mistake and he feels disgusted with himself. But the same thing happened about six months ago with a different girl on a night out and I forgave him.
He doesn’t seem to care about how much he has hurt me. What shall I do? This can’t carry on happening. He’s also told me he’s bound to do it again when he drinks.
