I got married to a man in the Army six months ago and moved away from home with him – away from all my friends and family. I’m only 19 and he is 21.

At first things were great and I was loving life, then I found myself crying all the time because I felt lonely and my husband never seemed to care.

He sleeps all the time or plays video games, and never wants to do anything with me.

Whenever I try to talk about how I’m feeling, he just yells at me.

He has said a lot of hurtful things, which he’s never apologised for, and afterwards he acts like nothing happened.

Recently, I told him I wanted to go home to gather my thoughts and he went mad, shouting that I wasn’t allowed to go home.

I have been going to a counsellor and she is telling me to get out.

My only problem now is that I don’t know how to leave.

Do I tell him I’m going, with the fear that he’s going to explode with anger or do I just walk out and break his heart? I care about him so much, but after living with him and being treated so badly and unable to do what I want, I’m just not happy any more.

I feel I will be so much happier at home with my family and friends.

Breaking News via Email

Enter your email address to subscribe to our website and receive notifications of Breaking News by email.