Dear Aunty Lisa
I’ve been in a relationship with a man for almost three years.
We haven’t had sex in 14 months but, despite my better judgment, I married him anyway in the summer.
We’ve been married for nearly five months and still we haven’t had sex.
On top of that, he hasn’t had a full-time job since he’s lived here, does very little around the house and doesn’t contribute financially.
He also doesn’t take good care of himself physically, emotionally or in terms of personal hygiene.
I am now so angry and hurt that I really don’t want to be with him any more.
I’m confused because he tells me he loves me and says he wants to be with me but his actions don’t show that.
We went to counselling over the summer but he refused to talk about these issues.
My friends and family say I should leave him.