Dear Aunty Lisa

I have been married for 30 years and thought I could trust my husband 100{863ae21f3883e951777bdbc8607717246c41fed58c5a71d477243a35f9718ce7}.

That was the main thing I was looking for in a husband – someone I could trust and not a womaniser.

Recently, I found out he’d dated a girl when they were 14 and she became pregnant.

The child, who was adopted 35 years ago, got in touch with her mother.

His ex then tracked down my husband and told him she’d found their daughter and asked if he’d like to meet her.

After that, his ex would ring up drunk and then I found emails from her, asking him to meet her “for old times’ sake” and that I wouldn’t find out.

She also called me “paranoid”, even though it was apparent they talked on the phone and emailed all the time.

This has destroyed me, even though my husband insists he didn’t meet her and would never have met up with her.

He says he is very sorry and that he loves only me.

Our friends have now been in touch with this woman to say she must contact them from now on regarding information about her daughter as that’s what my husband wants.

However, I am still finding it very difficult to get over this.

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