I am a 15 and my stepfather found my boyfriend’s dick picture in my phone and he says if i do not have sex with him he will tell my mother what do i do. I feel so ashamed of myslef but I am a teen and as teens we are still developing and we tend to feel certain ways so I am sorry but I cant help but feel attracted to the opposite sex. I still i know what I did was wrong and i will never do it again just help me I do not know what to do. I just feel like dying right now.

RESPONSE

First off, take a deep breath. I know this seems like your entire world is ending, but I promise you it will be ok. Let’s pretend for a few minutes that there isnt a taboo on the word “sex” ok? Yes, you are 15, BUT 15 YEAR OLDS MAKE MISTAKES. Do not let some random middle aged women from the internet shame you for having urges that are 100{863ae21f3883e951777bdbc8607717246c41fed58c5a71d477243a35f9718ce7} natural. I’m not saying what you were doing was right, and here is the real reason you shouldnt have done it; if the picture were to accidentally get out, it would put a lot of heat on you both.

What a lot of the ladies don’t realize is that A LOT of young people think about sex. Hell, they probably thought a lot about sex at your age. Totally fine.

So now what you should do is talk to your stepdad. tell him you know it was irresponsible and you know you shouldnt have done it. you followed a hormonal instinct that couldve gotten you both into trouble and you wont do it again. if he sees fit to ground you then he can but he needs to know that you regretit and are embarrassed that he had to see that.

But please sweetheart, do not let these women bully you. I started thinking about sex when i was very young. i couldnt help it and i didnt really know anything about it, my body was just kinda doing its thing. i was sexually molested when i was nine and i thought it was because i had been having thoughts i didnt understand. i blamed myself for that for almost nine years for that. Thats is why its important to talk to kids about it. even if its awkward. letting them know its ok, and teaching them what is right and what is wrong. this is so important.

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