“I am a 30-year-old woman. I am very worried about my problem. I’ve been dating some guys, but all the relationships have lasted only a few months. All the men dumped me without reason. I tried to sit down with my last boyfriend to find out what mistake I had made, but he would not tell me. Will I ever have a successful relationship?” – Rose, Witsieshoek
Aunty Lisa says
This calls for a break and introspection. You might be falling for the wrong guys or you are doing something wrong that you are not aware of. No man would tell you the truth after dumping you. If you have a male friend you are close to, he might be in a position to tell you the truth from the male point of view. These days, men are put off by women who always ask for money indirectly, such as asking for air time for their cellphone, money for a hairdo and so on. Life is not as it used to be in the past, when men were regarded as financial providers. I suggest you sit down and find yourself, talk to yourself, ask questions and answer them honestly, and take it from there.