I’m 27 years old and I have been seeing my boyfriend for just a year. The problem is that whenever we have sex he gets wet immediately and he doesn’t know what the problem is. I don’t know what to do any more because it is frustrating me.
Aunty Lisa says
I guess your man is like most young men of his age: he ejaculates or comes too quickly. This is quite common in young men, so don’t make it a problem. When a man is very excited, horny, turned on, he wants to just come. He has to try very hard not to ejaculate. When he does come too quickly, he gets frustrated because he hasn’t had enough time inside you. And of course you feel disappointed because it gives you very little time to have him inside you.
When young men masturbate they learn to better control that feeling that tells them they are about to get wet. So when he is inside you and he feels he is about to get wet, he knows he must stop, slow down, pull out and breathe slowly.
You must be a smart woman and guide him to pleasure you before or after he goes inside you. Teach him to play with your clitoris, the magic part of your genitals. Even if he comes too quickly he should still play with you afterwards. Then you will not be so frustrated and he can at least feel proud that he has given you pleasure.