Dear Aunty Lisa,
I have a pressing issue that is making me spend countless sleepless nights.
Last week I caught my husband cheating and instead of covering up, he straight up told me that he was tired of my body and everything else about me. He told me that yes, he loves me and always will, but that I am now too old, fat and basically worn out, just imagine!
It's just unbelievable! I married him when I was 19 and now at 34, I am worn out? Worn out because of giving him children and taking care of him for 15 years?
Well, I accepted that and with grace I asked him for a divorce but he’s insisting on staying married but says he can’t be faithful, that he would rather be sincere with me than lie…
Well, I’m thinking I should stay married like most women in Africa who are tired of their marriages are doing but do same thing that my husband is doing; that is find a man who doesn’t find my 34 year old body so worn out and make him my lover. To cut the long story short aunty Lisa, I'm sex starved. I really need to have sex and quench my desires. My husband is busy enjoying himself with other women while I'm craving for that boneless piece of flesh as if I'm not married.
He can’t be having all the fun alone, I should start cheating on him and sample what he is enjoying too. What do you think?