For a while now I’ve had a suspicion that my wife has been cheating on me with one of my close friends.
Every time we had a party or get together and he was there they would single themselves off in a part of the room and just talk and laugh, not even acknowledging everyone else.
She would laugh at his jokes like they were the funniest thing in the world and talk about how we should have him over more often and usually I wouldn’t have a problem with this but I knew that something was wrong. Long story short I decided to go on a limb and ask my friend if he had a thing for my wife.
He admitted to having s3x with her around 18 months ago (the time when we were trying to conceive) that’s also the month we found out we were pregnant with twin boys. I was so angry I couldn’t see straight. We got into a physical altercation and I didn’t ask more questions like i should have (ie. if he used a cond0m or not).
I want to confront my wife about why she cheated on me and I need to know if those kids are mine but I know she would be beyond furious if I questioned if I were their father. How do I go about doing this without it resulting into just yelling back and forth?