I am a girl of 23 and I have a boyfriend who I love so much. He loves me too and he has even introduced me to his family and his parents know me very well. But the problem is that he cheats on me with another girl once in a while. In spite of this I still love him because it doesn’t happen all the time, unlike his friends that cheat on their girls daily.
But his cheating has pushed me to have feelings for this other guy I met recently and I just can’t get my mind off him. I have been tempted several times to cheat on my boyfriend with this new guy. I even tell myself that since my guy is cheating then I should do the same.
The issue now is that I have never cheated on my boyfriend all through our four year relationship and I don’t feel that it is right in a loving relationship. But now I find myself thinking that since he does his own then there is no big deal in me trying it out once.