My parents passed away when I was in primary school and my mother was not working so my sister and her husband helped with my upkeep till I finished university and started working.
During the course of time my sister and her husband passed away and left 2 kids and I decided to take care of the kids and they moved into my house. Now the problem is my wife is very hostile to these kids. I went on a business trip and when I came back there was a story that my eldest nephew who is 14 had stolen my mother-in-law’s cellphone who was staying with us at that time. They took the boy to the police and he was beaten terribly. I was so angry and I told my wife that I don’t want her mother in our house ever again and she left.
Since then our relationship has been in turmoil. Recently she suggested that we have an open marriage for the sake of the kids. This is getting me worried and I suspect she is seeing someone & I am strongly thinking of divorcing, because she only listens to her mother who is bad influence.