“My boyfriend and I have been going out for many years and I support him financially. Although he does not work, he goes out and gambles the money away. Sometimes he wins but he does not bring the money home. He sleeps out and parties with his friends. When I go out with my friends, he threatens to beat me because he says I’m his woman and I will do as he says. I am the provider in the house and he does not value me at all. Am I not supposed to be the one who makes the rules around the house?” – Jabu
My dear Jabu
Get it into your head that this man does not own you – nobody owns another person, we all belong to God. He doesn’t love you and he stays with you because you give him financial support. Ask yourself why he spends his winnings on other people instead of on you, the person who is always with him during difficult times. He is selfish and has no respect for you.
Move on with your life,sisi. This man was not meant for you and if he does beat you, call the SAPS and lay a charge of assault against him.

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